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IF I KNEW THEN

Episode Five: I Wish I Had Taken Time Management More Seriously

Knowing the answer is not always enough.

Sometimes, you know the law ,you understand the question. You know the cases and principles and yet, somehow, you still don’t get to write everything you know.

Why?

Time.

Time management was something I gradually learnt to take seriously, and honestly, I wish I had started much earlier. In 100 level, it wasn’t really a problem at least, not in the way it became later.

I remember being concerned about finishing my examination, but the pressure wasn’t quite the same. I didn’t yet understand how much time would matter when several law courses were demanding my attention at the same time.

Then I got to 200 level and suddenly, time management became a completely different ball game.

It wasn’t just about having enough time to read.There was the reading,understanding,comprehending ,trying to make sense of cases.

After doing all of that, you still had to sit in an examination hall and actually deliver everything you had learnt.

Those are two very different things.

You can spend hours studying a course and feel like you understand it completely.

Then the examination starts. You see the question, you know what they are asking and somehow, you start writing…

And writing… Just because you’re trying to make sure the lecturer sees everything you know. You’re wondering, Is this enough? “Should I explain this more”?

Maybe I should add this case too.

What if this is the point the lecturer is looking for?

Before you know it, you’ve spent so much time on one question that you suddenly look at the clock and realise you have other questions waiting for you.

That was one of the things I struggled with. Sometimes, it wasn’t that I didn’t put in the effort.

I did.

Sometimes, I simply wasted time.I wanted to make sure I had written enough to satisfy the question, but I wasn’t always sure what “enough” actually looked like and because I wasn’t sure, I just kept writing.More explanations, things I had read and sometimes, I still didn’t properly answer the question.

Then the examination ends. You submit your script and later, when the result comes out, you start asking yourself: Did I really put in enough effort?

Did I actually know this course?

Why didn’t my result reflect all the time I spent studying?

It took me a while to understand that sometimes the problem wasn’t what I knew. It was what I did with the time I had.

I had to start asking different questions. I spoke with people.

I paid attention to what worked for other students and began trying different approaches for myself.

I realised that I needed to stop thinking about examinations only as a test of how much I knew. They were also a test of how well I could use limited time to communicate what I knew.

So I became more intentional. I started putting myself in examination situations.

I would ask myself: If this were an actual examination, what would I write?

What is the question really asking me?

What does the examiner actually need to see?And most importantly:When do I move on?

That last question became very important to me because I eventually learnt that answering an examination question does not mean writing everything you know about the topic.

Your lecturer is not asking you to reproduce the textbook. Your job is to answer the question.

and sometimes, answering the question properly means knowing what not to write.

Then someone gave me advice that stayed with me. My fellowship hosted a programme, and during one of the sessions, I asked a question about managing time during examinations.

The speaker gave an example that I have carried with me ever since.

He said ” If you have a three-hour examination, that is 180 minutes. If you are expected to answer four questions, dividing 180 minutes by four gives you 45 minutes per question”.

Instead of planning to use the full 45 minutes, the advice was to aim for 40 minutes per question that way, you save five minutes from each question.

Five minutes × four questions gives you 20 minutes at the end.

Twenty minutes to go back.You are able to check your answers, add something important you may have missed and, most importantly, avoid getting to the end of the examination and realising that you have one question left with no time to answer it.

It sounded so simple but it changed the way I looked at examinations. I started thinking about my time before I even started writing.

What am I answering first?

How much time should I spend here?

Am I still answering the question, or am I just writing because I know more?

When should I move on and what can I leave out?

That last one was particularly important for me because I had to understand that leaving something out is not necessarily a sign that you don’t know it.

Sometimes, it is simply examination strategy. Labour Law was a turning point for me.

There was one particular examination where I was very intentional about my time.This one is especially memorable to me because I actually saw the result of being intentional. I finished the entire examination.

I didn’t leave the examination hall thinking about the things I had failed to answer because I ran out of time and when the result came out, I got the grade I wanted.

I was happy, honestly, I felt fulfilled.

I think that was the moment something really clicked for me. I finally saw the difference that time could make. It was about having direction.

I began to understand the importance of reading with direction and answering with direction.

When you understand the course and understand what the question is asking, there is a certain direction to your answer.

You know what you need to and don’t need to say.

You’re not just scrambling through everything you have ever read and hoping that somewhere in all of it, the lecturer finds the answer and that made a huge difference for me.

I try not to get carried away with one question and I try to remember that the goal is not to produce one perfect answer while sacrificing the rest of the examination.

The goal is to give the best complete answer I can within the time available.

But 300 level taught me something else.

Even after I started taking time management seriously, I realised that it doesn’t mean you will always have enough time. Sometimes, the examination itself will test you and 300 level gave me a good taste of that.

There were tests where the thought was almost always:“How am I supposed to finish this?” 😂

Sometimes, I had prepared my mind to spend about 40 or 45 minutes on a question, only to find myself with far less time than I expected.

And honestly?You just have to learn to work under pressure. I didn’t always get the result I wanted from those tests but those experiences taught me something important.

Time management does not mean you will always have enough time.It means that when you have limited time, you know how to use it.

You may not always get three hours, you u may not always get the perfect question.

You may not always be able to write everything you know. Sometimes, the pressure will be real but you cannot allow the pressure to make you lose direction.

I am still learning this. I don’t think I can honestly say that I have completely mastered time management.

Every level seems to come with a different kind of pressure and somehow, there is always something new waiting to test your ability to manage the time you have.

But I know now that time is something I cannot afford to take for granted because I have seen the difference it can make.

I have seen what happens when I read with direction and I have seen how frustrating it can be to know the answer but run out of time before you can properly give it.

So, if I could go back to the beginning, I would tell myself: Don’t wait until you’re struggling in an examination hall before you start thinking about time.

Practise with time ,attempt questions under timed conditions.

Learn how long it takes you to properly answer a question, learn when to move on and learn that sometimes, the smartest thing you can do is leave something out so that you can properly answer something else.

At the end of the day, you don’t get marks for the answers you knew but never had time to write and maybe that is the biggest lesson time management has taught me.

Knowing the answer is important, knowing how to answer it is important.

But knowing how to use the time you have to actually put that answer on paper?

That matters too and honestly..

I wish I knew that then.

IF I KNEW THEN : EPISODE FOUR

How to answer law problem questions using IRAC
When I was in 100 level, we had only one proper law course, Legal Method and somewhere along the line, I started hearing about something called problem questions.
Problem questions?
I remember hearing about them and immediately thinking, Please, what is this one again? 😭
They were questions written more like stories or scenarios. Instead of simply asking you to explain a particular area of law, the examiner would give you a whole set of facts and expect you to read through them, identify the legal issues, know the applicable law and then use that law to solve the problem.
Honestly, I dreaded them. In 100 level, I somehow tried to escape problem questions. If there was a way to avoid them, I was interested.
Maybe part of the problem was that I didn’t really understand what I was supposed to do with them.
I knew how to read, I could memorise cases and legal principles.
But give me a long passage with different people doing different things and tell me to identify the legal issues?That was a different conversation.

Then I got to 200 level and suddenly, I knew I could no longer run.
There was law of contract, constitutional Law, Nigerian legal system. Of course, problem questions were there waiting for me.
At that point, I knew I needed to understand them.I couldn’t keep saying, I’ll know it eventually.
One thing I noticed about myself was that most times, I actually knew the answer. The problem wasn’t always that I didn’t know the law.
The problem was getting from the long story in front of me to the actual legal issues hidden inside it.
I had to learn how to read a question differently. I had to learn how to slow down, understand what was happening, break the facts down and ask myself: What exactly is the examiner testing me on?
At first, my approach wasn’t the best.
I remember that in my first semester, once I read a question and realised, Oh, this is about this particular topic, I would just start writing everything I knew about that topic and yes, it helped me to some extent because I was at least putting down what I knew.
But looking back now, it was not an effective way to answer a problem question because knowing the topic is not the same thing as answering the question.
I HAD TO LEARN HOW TO THINK THROUGH THE QUESTION
I became deliberate about learning how to answer problem questions.
I asked seniors, tried making research and then I practised on my own. This  was when I became more intentional about IRAC.
i.Issue.
ii. Rule.
iii. Application.
iv.Conclusion.
At first, it sounded like another thing to memorise. But eventually, I realised that IRAC wasn’t there to make answering questions complicated.
It was actually there to help me organise my thoughts.
1) ISSUE
First, what is the legal issue arising from these facts?
This became one of the biggest things I had to learn: spotting issues. When you read a problem question, don’t just read it as a story. Read it looking for the law hidden inside the story.
For example, imagine you are given a question about someone who made a speech and was arrested because of what they said. Don’t just read the story and think, This is Constitutional Law.
Start asking questions.
a. Is there an issue concerning freedom of expression?
b.Is there an issue concerning personal liberty?
c.Are there other rights or legal principles arising from the facts?
The ability to see those issues is important. One gem I learnt is that as you read, you should begin to identify the different legal topics embedded in the question.The story is not just a story. There is law inside it and it’s your job is to find it.
2) RULE
Once you have identified the issue, ask yourself: What law applies here?
This is where your sections, legal principles and cases come in.

a)If the issue concerns a constitutional right, what provision of the Constitution applies?
b)If it concerns a contractual principle, what rule governs it?
c)What cases have established that principle?
But don’t just throw authorities into your answer because you remember them.Understand why they are relevant.
The examiner wants to see that you know the law and know how it relates to the issue before you.

3) APPLICATION
Then comes the part that I think many of us struggle with: Application.
This is where you take the law you have stated and bring it into the facts of the question.
Let’s say the law says that a particular right is protected, subject to certain recognised exceptions.Don’t stop there.
Ask:
a)What happened in this particular question?
b)Does what happened fall within the protection?
c)Does it fall within an exception?
d)How does the legal principle apply to the person in the scenario?
This is where you move from simply stating the law to actually using the law to solve the problem. For example, if the law protects a person’s freedom of expression, and the facts tell us that someone was arrested because of something they said, don’t simply write the constitutional provision and move on.
Make sure to connect it. Explain why the facts may amount to an interference with that right, and whether that interference is legally justified based on the facts given.
You are showing the examiner:I know the law, and I know how to use it.
4)CONCLUSION
Then, after applying the law, reach your conclusion.
a)What is the likely legal position?
b)Who is likely to succeed?
c)What right may have been violated?d)What defence may be available?Answer the question. It sounds simple, but learning to do all of this properly made a difference for me.

I ALSO HAD TO STOP WRITING EVERYTHING I KNEW
This was another lesson I had to learn.
I used to think that answering a question meant showing the lecturer everything I knew. If I had read ten things about the topic, I wanted to put all ten things in my answer.
But an examination question is not always asking:”Tell me everything you know about this topic.”
Sometimes it is asking:”Can you identify the legal problems in these facts and use the law to solve them?”
Those are two different things.I had to learn not to be deceived by the desire to write everything. More issues, cases, do not automatically mean a better answer.
A longer answer does not automatically mean a better answer. What matters is identifying the material issues raised by the facts and dealing with them properly.
There may be several issues in a question, but some will be more important than others. So don’t make the mistake of thinking you have to write every single thing you can possibly find just to prove that you know the law.
AND THEN THERE WAS PRACTICE
I don’t think I would have understood problem questions properly if I had only read about how to answer them.I had to practise.
I had to attempt questions, made  mistakes.
Sometimes I would read a question and think I had spotted everything, only to realise that I had missed an important issue.
Sometimes I knew the rule but didn’t apply it properly. Sometimes my application was there, but my conclusion was weak and sometimes I simply wrote too much about something that wasn’t even the main issue.
That is why, if you are currently in 100 level and problem questions scare you, I honestly don’t think the answer is to wait until you feel ready.
You become better by attempting them.
Start with one.
Read it, try to spot the issues, look for the relevant law, attempt the application.

Conclude.Then,  check your answer.
Ask a senior, Compare it with a model answer if you have one.

You don’t have to be perfect at the beginning.

You just have to start.

If I knew then what I know now, I would not have spent so much time being afraid of problem questions. I would have understood earlier that they were not some impossible part of studying law.
I would have started practising earlier,
I would have learnt earlier that knowing the law is only one part of being able to answer a law question.

So, to the 100-level student who is currently hearing “problem questions” and already feeling afraid:
Please don’t run from them like I did.  You don’t need to know everything before you start.
You don’t need to write the longest answer. You don’t need to impress the lecturer with everything you have ever read.
You need to understand the question.
Find the issues.

Know the law.

Apply it.

Conclude.

And keep practising.

 Eventually, that long passage that once looked like a mountain starts becoming something you can break down.

You start reading the facts and seeing the law.You start knowing what deserves your attention and one day, you realise:

“Oh. I actually know how to do this.”

If I knew then what I know now, I would have started much earlier and maybe that’s the point.

Don’t wait until you are good at it before you start. Start so you can become good at it.

IF I KNEW THEN .

“If There Was No Physical Resistance, Is It Still Rape?”

“Why didn’t she scream?”“Why didn’t he fight back?”“If it was really rape, there should have been injuries.”

These and many more are some of the most common reactions people give whenever a rape allegation comes up. Many people still believe that for rape to happen, the victim must physically struggle, shout, fight, or show visible injuries. But is that truly what the law says?Imagine this.

A lady is alone with someone she trusted. She says “no” repeatedly, but instead of stopping, the person continues. She freezes and she is scared. Her body becomes numb. She does not scream. She does not fight. She simply goes silent and waits for it to end.

Now imagine another scenario.

A person is threatened emotionally, manipulated, or intimidated into sex. There is no knife. No physical beating, nothing physical used against the person whatsoever.No dramatic struggle. Yet deep down, the person never truly agreed.

So the question becomes:

If there was no physical resistance, is it still rape?The simple answer is yes.

The crime of rape is not defined by how hard a victim fought back. It is defined by the absence of consent. According to Section 357 of the Criminal Code, rape is carnal knowledge without consent

One of the biggest misconceptions about rape is the belief that every victim reacts the same way. In reality, trauma affects people differently. For some people they scream, some cry. Some try to escape while others just freezes completely.

Psychologists even explain that during fear or trauma, the body may enter a “freeze response.” This means a victim may become too terrified or shocked to physically resist. The brain could automatically just go numb. Silence, fear, or lack of physical struggle does not automatically mean agreement.

Consent is the real issue. Consent means a free, willing, informed, and voluntary agreement to engage in sexual activity. It must be genuine. It cannot be forced, manipulated, threatened, or assumed.

A person who is frightened, intimidated, unconscious, asleep, drunk beyond understanding, or emotionally pressured may not truly be consenting even if there was no physical fight. The criminal code provides that any one put under fear of harm or any intimidation for unlawful carnal knowledge is said to have been raped.

This is why modern conversations around sexual offences focus more on consent than resistance.

Under Nigerian law, rape is generally defined as unlawful sexual intercourse without consent. The important factor is whether the victim agreed freely, not whether the victim fought physically.

For years, society pushed the dangerous idea that a “real victim” must show bruises, torn clothes, or evidence of violent resistance. But the law is gradually moving away from that thinking because human reactions to fear are different.

Courts now understand that lack of resistance does not always equal consent. It is very possible or likely a victim has been subjected to fear of harm and may submit out of fear.A victim may remain silent out of shock.A victim may also comply because they feel powerless. It is very possible a victim is put in a room he/she believes to be far from other people’s reach and just feel it unless raising an alarm. None of these automatically remove the possibility of rape.

This conversation is important because many victims blame themselves simply because they did not “fight enough.” Some stay silent for years because society convinced them their experience was not valid unless there was physical violence.

However, rape is not measured by the amount of force used. It is measured by whether there was genuine consent.

At the same time, allegations of rape are serious and must always be properly investigated with fairness, evidence, and due process. The goal is not emotional judgment but justice guided clearly by the law and facts.

As we wrap up this episode of “What Does the Law Say?”, perhaps the real question society should start asking is not:“Did the victim resist enough?

”But rather:“Was there true and voluntary consent?”actually silence is not always consent.

Fear is not consent Submission under pressure is not consent and lack of physical resistance does not automatically mean the act was lawful.

Can a Husband Rape His Wife Under Nigerian Law?
Imagine this.
A woman is married. Everybody sees the woman and her man as a couple . They attend events together, take pictures together, pray together literally everything together.But behind closed doors, there are moments where she says no and her husband refuses to listen. She could be  tired, perhaps she simply does not want to.
But then comes the response many people have heard before:“But I’m your husband.”
Marriage is often described as a union built on love, trust, companionship, and mutual commitment. But for a very long time, society also treated marriage as something more than that. It was seen as a relationship where a husband automatically gained control over his wife, just because of their marital vows.
Many people grew up hearing statements like:
“She is your wife.” “Marriage means she belongs to you.” “A wife cannot deny her husband.”
For a very long time, many people genuinely believed that once a woman gets married, consent becomes automatic forever. They believe  marriage itself means permanent sexual access. That a wife cannot withdraw consent from her husband because, after all, “they are married.”
Infact there’s also a harmful belief that a woman “keeps her body” for her husband, especially in relation to virginity. But a woman’s body is not something reserved or owed to anyone her choices are personal, not a form of entitlement for a spouse.
Now , what does the law have to say?Can a husband actually rape his wife under Nigerian law?First let’s look into where this whole concept started from.
The belief that a husband cannot rape his wife did not originally start from African culture alone. It came from old English common law.
A 17th-century English judge, Sir Matthew Hale, once argued that by agreeing to marriage, a woman had already given permanent consent to sexual intercourse with her husband.
In simple terms: According to this old legal thinking, a wife could not later withdraw consent.
That principle influenced many legal systems, including Nigeria’s. Even till today, traces of that belief still exist in our laws.
Under Nigerian law, rape generally means unlawful carnal knowledge without consent.But when marriage enters the conversation, things become legally messy.The Criminal Code has it under Section 357 of the Criminal Code, rape is unlawful sexual intercourse without consent.
The problem, however, is that historically, the law did not fully recognize intercourse within marriage as “unlawful” in the same way.
This created a loophole around marital rape. In the penal code applicable in the Northern part of Nigeria the position becomes even more direct under the Penal Code applicable in many Northern states in  Section 282(2) of the Penal Code states that:Sexual intercourse by a man with his own wife is not rape once she has attained puberty. So yes, the law literally creates an exception and this is one of the reasons marital rape remains one of the most debated topics in Nigerian criminal law.
But, let’s pause for a second , forget legal sections for a moment. If a stranger forces sex on a woman without consent, society quickly recognizes it as wrong. So why should marriage suddenly erase the importance of consent?
That is the question modern human rights conversations keep asking because consent is not supposed to be a one-time agreement signed forever on a wedding day. Consent can be withdrawn, it is subject to change. Marriage does not remove a person’s control over their body and  honestly, this is where many people begin to rethink everything they were taught.
The reality many people ignore is one  reason this conversation is difficult is because many victims themselves do not even realize what is happening to them. Society has normalized certain things.
People say:“It’s your duty as a wife”, “Don’t deny your husband”, “That’s how marriage works.”
So many women remain silent even when intimacy becomes forceful, violent, manipulative, or deeply traumatic.Not because they are comfortable with it. But because they have been taught that marriage means endurance and just being a strong woman and that silence is part of why this topic remains uncomfortable.
The Law Is Slowly Evolving
Although Nigerian law still contains controversial gaps, newer laws are beginning to move toward stronger protection of bodily autonomy and dignity. The Violence Against Persons (Prohibition) Act 2015, popularly called the VAPP Act, expanded conversations around domestic violence, consent, and abuse within relationships.
The Act recognizes that violence can happen even within intimate relationships and marriages. Many legal scholars also argue that forced sexual intercourse in marriage can violate Section 34 of the Constitution, which protects the dignity of the human person because realistically, forcing intimacy on someone who clearly does not consent affects:dignity, bodily autonomy, emotional safety, and personal freedom.
And marriage should not cancel those rights.
So, Can a Husband Be Punished for Forced Sexual Conduct?
This is where legal reality becomes important.
Even where prosecution for “rape” itself may face legal complications because of marital exemptions under certain laws, forced sexual conduct within marriage can still lead to:
domestic violence claims,assault, battery, or protection orders under laws like the VAPP Act.
So the idea that marriage gives unlimited freedom to abuse a spouse is not legally accurate.
The truth is, this topic is bigger than criminal law.
It forces society to ask difficult questions about:
power,consent, marriage,culture, and human dignity.
Marriage is not ownership, a  wedding ring does not remove a person’s right to say no.
Finally, the law on marital rape in Nigeria is still evolving, and the conversation remains deeply controversial. But whether people agree or disagree, one thing is certain: Consent is no longer being viewed the way it was centuries ago.
People are beginning to understand that marriage should be built on mutual respect, not fear, pressure, or entitlement. Basically the basics of this discussion because sometimes, understanding the law is not only about knowing what the law currently says.It is also about questioning what the law should become.
Law Made Simple — where we don’t just read the law, we understand it.

You’re just minding your business… maybe watching a movie, scrolling, or even about to sleep.

Then bam your phone screen lights up a credit alert!

You check it the money is real. But the name? You don’t recognize it. You even try to take your thoughts back” but nobody asked for your account details now so how come?”

Nobody told you money was coming. It’s possible no one tells you the money was coming and they just send you a receipt but this time the name is unfamiliar.

So now the question is simple, Do you keep it or spend it?

It sounds like one of those lucky moments life just hands to you. But before you start planning how to use the money, pause for a second because the law actually has something to say about this situation, and it may not be what you expect.

So, what does the law say?

In Nigeria, receiving money by mistake is actually not the problem. The real issue begins the moment you decide to treat that money as if it belongs to you.

Legally, that money does not belong to you. It is what the law would consider a mistaken payment, and keeping it or spending it can bring you into trouble. This situation falls under principles similar to stealing or dishonest appropriation. Under criminal law, a person can be guilty of an offence if they dishonestly convert property that does not belong to them for their own use.

So even though you didn’t ask for the money, once you realize it is not yours and still decide to spend it, the law may interpret that as dishonesty.

“But I didn’t steal it… it was sent to me” that’s the tricky part.

You didn’t initiate the transfer, yes. But the law looks at what you do after you become aware of the mistake.

The moment you notice that first the sender is unknown,the payment was not intended for you, there is no legitimate reason for the money,You are expected to act in good faith.

Choosing to ignore that and spend the money can be seen as taking advantage of someone else’s mistake. Is it actually a crime? It can be.

Depending on the circumstances, spending mistakenly transferred money may amount to:

1.Stealing under criminal law

2.Obtaining property dishonestly

3.Even fraud in certain situations

Especially if you quickly withdraw or transfer the money, you ignore attempts by the sender or bank to recover it which is the height of intention to steal, you deliberately avoid being contacted.

At that point, it stops looking like an innocent mistake and starts looking intentional.

Now, what should you do instead?

This is where many people get it wrong. The safest and most legally sound steps are:

1.First, do not touch the money: I understand it can be very tempting but as tempting as it may be, leave it exactly as it is. Infact the money could when needs are pressing all around you just leave it as it is.

2.Next, notify your bank immediately: Banks deal with these situations often, and they can trace and reverse the transaction properly. If the sender contacts you, kindly cooperate. There is nothing to gain from being defensive when the truth is clear.

Why do people still spend it? A big question to ask.Honestly, because it feels harmless. Many people assume: “It’s the bank’s mistake”, “It’s free money”, “They won’t notice”

But in reality, these transactions are traceable. Banks keep detailed records, and once a complaint is made, investigations can begin. What seemed like “luck” can quickly turn into a legal issue.

The bigger picture is that situations like this show how close the law is to our everyday lives. It’s not always about big courtroom battles or high-profile cases. Sometimes, it’s about simple decisions we make in quiet moments.

Moments like: Do I take what isn’t mine… or do I do the right thing?

Finally, that unexpected credit alert might feel like a blessing but how you respond to it is what truly matters. In the eyes of the law,it’s not just about how the money came, it’s about what you chose to do with it.

 This is the Law Made Simple — where we don’t just read the law, we understand it. See you next week!